The Holidays Don’t Have to be Stressful!

December 1, 2008

Let’s face it. The economy stinks right now. But the holidays are upon us and we want to buy our loved ones gifts, entertain, and have holiday-as-usual. As we saw by the news reels of Black Friday, and the unfortunate incidents at the New York Wal-Mart and a Palm Desert Toys “R” Us store, shoppers are really stressed out and are doing anything they can to get a good deal.

If you’re like most Americans, your shopping list is a mile long, your social calendar is full, yet your patience is thin and your budget is stretched to the max. So what can you do to achieve your holiday shopping goals and stay sane at the same time?

If your holiday mantra is “Bah Humbug!” rather than “Ho Ho Ho”, try these tips to reduce your stress and enjoy the holiday season:

Relax your expectations. You don’t have to find the perfect present. You don’t have to cook the perfect meal. Your family loves you for yourself, not for your Beef Wellington.
Let your kids pitch in. They may turn out to be excellent gift-wrappers or table-setters!
Stick to your budget. Overspending will add to your stress for months or even years to come. See tip #1.
Plan ahead. Shop early. Watch for sales. Set up a savings account for next year’s expenses.
Potluck! If you’re entertaining, save money, time and stress by making it a potluck!
Find time for fun. As they say, laughter is the best medicine!